Is there a way to change the order in List View
Not possible currently.
You can try list_view settings
Where can I find list_view settings?
so where should I go? /home/frappe/frappe-bench/apps/erpnext ?
@Florea_Andrei List View is not configurable from Customise From as per your requirement.
If you are developer, then you can check how file list and sales order list is designed and then you can write your own code.