In a doctype there is two link Fields User1 and User2 both link with ‘User’ if in field1 select a user then same can not select in field2.
I don’t remember the exact syntax but it must be like:
frm.set_query('user2', {'name': ['!=', user1.name]});
Look for set_query and get_query in the forum.
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